Don’t allow your life to be controlled by these 5 things!

1. Your past

2. Other peoples opinions and judgements

3. Limited beliefs your project on yourself

4. Relationships

5. Money

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Don’t allow your past to control your present or your future. Whatever happened you must let it go. Leave the pain of your past behind.. so it can not ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind so it can not block the light of your bright future. Your past Is gone. Whatever happened, whether unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever it may have been reliving the events will never do you any good. If someone did you wrong the only way you can win, is if you let go and move on. If you live in hate, they win. If you live in the victim story, they win. If you want to win, you must focus on building your future and start right now. Don’t ruin the now by focusing on the past, enjoy this moment right now.

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Don’t allow other peoples opinions and judgements control the direction of your life. The need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you don’t want to travel. People pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs. Before you do anything ask yourself, am I do this because I want to do it? Or because of my fear of judgment from others if I don’t. you were born unique for a reason. you were born to stand out. To be appreciated and loved for WHO YOU ARE. Don’t dim your light so you fit in the dull back ground of other peoples lives. Shine bright to whom you really are. Those who really care about you, will see that light and shine with you.

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Do not allow your life to be controlled by your own limited beliefs. You cant listen to everyone around you, especially if they have never reached for their own dream. Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut up. There is nothing you can not have, and nothing you can not do and no one you can not become. If you believe in yourself. Change your belief to limited to unlimited and your potential is unlimited.

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Relationships if you are always needing another to be happy, to feel complete, then you are always one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you or unhappiness if the relationship you are in is not going well. I am not suggesting at all to avoid relationships, there is not force on this earth greater than love and connection. I am talking about those who cant live if they are in a relationship, those who will be with just about anyone, including all the wrong ones just to avoid a moment being single. What I am saying is to develop enough mental strength that you get to the point where you don’t need others to make you happy. You are just as happy being alone as you are in a relationship.

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Money, this is what controls majority of humans on this planet. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t want abundance or that money is evil, there’s a million great things you can do with money and how many people you can help with money. What this means is do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money. If you are choosing something only on the factor of how much money is involved, you’ve just made the wrong decision. What you will find is that when you follow your heart and you lead with your intention to serve others, to give your best to others – every single time – when you follow your intuition and truly give your soul then the money will come. And it will come in far greater amounts than if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money.

Live fully.